I’ve been reading these for a while (very fun) and AiE tagged me:

3 names you go by:
- Lu
- Mom
- Blankenship (people really call me by my last name)

3 screennames you’ve had (besides blog psuedonym):
- lblanken
-lu
-drphdmom

3 physical things you like about yourself:
- boobs
- hair
- weight

3 physical things you dislike about yourself:
- butt
- teeth
- the pooch

3 parts of your heritage:
- Scottish
- English
- German

3 things you are wearing right now:
- lime green (chartruse?) t-shirt
- my least favorite pair of Eddie Bauer jeans
- rockports

3 favorite bands / musical artists:
- U2
- They Might Be Giants
- Bare Naked Ladies

3 things you want in a relationship:
- companionship
- support
- fun

3 physical things about the preferred sex that appeals to you:
- eyes
- legs
- smooth hands

3 of your favorite hobbies:
- blogging
- playing video games
- writing

3 things you want to do really badly right now:
- take a really long vacation (3 or 4 weeks)
- be pampered
- sleep

3 things that scare you:
- something happening to one of my kids
- something happening to Mr. Geeky
- random crazy people

3 of your everyday essentials:
- coffee
- internet
- sleep

3 careers you have considered or are considering:
- college professor
- poet
- something in the non-profit sector

3 places you want to go on vacation:
- Greece
- Hawaii
- New England (hey, I’ve never been)

3 kids’ names you like:
(besides the two we have)
- Harrison (runner up for Geeky Boy’s name)
- Meredith
- Zackery

3 things you want to do before you die:
- publish a book (heck, I’d settle for finishing one)
- take a trip around the world
- buy the perfect house

3 ways you are stereotypically a boy:
- I like to play video games
- I drink lots of beer (and prefer beer over any other alcohol)
- I don’t care much about how I look

3 ways you are stereotypically a chick:
- I giggle
- I like buying stuff for the house
- I like date movies

3 celeb crushes:
- Orlando Bloom
- Harrison Ford
- Vigo Mortensen

3 people I would like to see take this quiz now:
-Has anyone not done this? Bitch, Ph.D? jimbo? timna?

A to-do list for tomorrow:

Finish stairs
Clean up hall desk and bedroom desk
Clean up bar
Buy wine
Drop off stuff at thrift shop
Drop off recycling

There’s no way all this is going to happen mind you. They’re goals really.

This was a primary election in an off-off year. There was nothing major at stake. We had maybe a 20% turnout of registered voters. What was interesting to me was the kind of people who showed up, the people who are most dedicated to participating in the election process. Most of the people who came were over 65. I would say 75% at least. It was disappointing that more people of working age didn’t show. The thing is the people that win these local elections sometimes serve as the minor league players for the next level up, for state positions and then for national positions. So aside from the importance of participating in local politics, the local politicians are often the ones who end up being the national politicians years down the road.

The other thing that I think is depressing is letting the people who are 80 and 90 years old determine your future. Not that I’m knocking their right to participate, but my impression with many of them is that they are afraid of change and that they are voting mainly to keep the status quo (a huge generalization I realize, but somewhat accurate for my area I think).

Republicans outnumber Democrats in our district, but not by the huge margins that showed up to vote yesterday. Of the 211 voters, 155 were Republicans. That’s about 75% Republican. I think it’s really about 60% Republican, but so many Democrats didn’t even bother to vote. Part of the reason for that is that nothing was contested on the Democratic ticket, but there was a bond issue to vote on that was a statewide issue. In my area, at least, it seems that Democrats are less likely to vote.

The whole thing was kind of depressing. It’s like we (the Democrats) feel defeated. I fully admit that I rarely voted in local elections, both because I was too lazy, but also because I was never in one place for long enough to care. Now that I’m in a place where I think I’ll stay, I plan to participate more and get my fellow Democrats out to vote.

Hee–couldn’t resist the alliteration. I want to write a bit about today’s primary, but I’m a little too tired at the moment and want to catch up on blog reading first. How many of you voted today?

I’m monitoring primaries today so won’t be checking in. If you have primaries or school board elections, go vote!

The second installment of the NYT series on class is out today and its focus is on class and health. Using three people from three different classes who all have heart attacks, they cover everything from hospital choices, doctor’s visits and diet and exercise options. I wrote about this issue myself a while back. The issue I have with all these calls to eat better and exercise more is that these options are often not available to people at lower income levels. I, myself, who am supposedly in the top fifth in income (who knew!), can’t really afford to join a health club, though I do have a nice neighborhood for walking and free access to tennis and basketball courts. I also complained about the cost of healthy food. Though I have found some possibilities (Trader Joe’s and a good produce store nearby), it’s still hard to reconcile spending $3.00 on asparagus that will only last for one meal when you can buy $3.00 in potatoes that will last for several meals. This is just the way most people watching a food budget think. Prices are more important than the nutrition label.

The NYT article is really revealing. The woman in the lower class was at a disadvantage to begin with, having unhealthy habits and not really knowing or having access to resources that would help her change those habits. Her visit to the doctor revealed other health problems that might have been caught at regular preventative visits, but without good health insurance and shaky language skills, those visits never occurred. In some ways, it’s an argument for nationalized health care. I’m not saying it’s the be-all end-all, but national health care would solve a number of problems. The bankruptcy issue, for one. Social Security, for another. When health care costs are a huge chunk of everyone’s budget, relieving that chunk or lessening it means they are less likely to have financial difficulties as a result of health problems and less to worry about as they get older and have lots of medicine and doctor visits. They might not even have the health problems to begin with because they would have gotten proper care earlier.

We have been very, very lucky, but there have been times when we haven’t had health insurance (like in grad school) and if something had happened (car wreck, major illness), we would have been in deep trouble. But, of course, we have families who are financially stable enough to help us and that’s what many in the lower classes do not have. There’s no one to bail them out.

For some reason, this whole issue makes me think of a Dickens novel where the poor families live in squalor and suffer horrible illnesses while the wealthy families go out for daily constitutionals and take trips to southern Italy to regain their health. I had always identified with the families in squalor because I certainly can’t take trips to Italy on a whim. But I see now that I’m closer to that than I am to whithering away from a disease. A scary thought.

This is really cute. I think it’d be fun to play it on the first day of the blog class–and maybe again on the last day.

There were a few posts about class this week. Class is one of my favorite topics because it is so complicated. I haven’t yet read the NYTimes series on class referred to in several of the posts, but I did read David Brooks’ column about why the poor tend to vote Republican. Here is Brooks’ assessment:

These working-class folk like the G.O.P.’s social and foreign policies, but the big difference between poor Republicans and poor Democrats is that the former believe that individuals can make it on their own with hard work and good character.

According to the Pew study, 76 percent of poor Republicans believe most people can get ahead with hard work. Only 14 percent of poor Democrats believe that. Poor Republicans haven’t made it yet, but they embrace what they take to be the Republican economic vision – that it is in their power to do so. Poor Democrats are more likely to believe they are in the grip of forces beyond their control.

The G.O.P. succeeds because it is seen as the party of optimistic individualism.

What I wonder is which view is really true. In looking the graphics from the NY Times series (yes, that’s all I’ve had time for), it seems that there isn’t much mobility at the very top or the very bottom. If you’re in one of those classes you’re likely to stay there. So it seems to me that the chances of someone achieving the American Dream when they start at the bottom are pretty slim. But I’m completely aware of the surrounding culture that tells us otherwise.

My own class story is that I was born into the upper middle class. I married into the middle to lower-middle class and we are now solidly simply middle class. Except according to the NY Times, we’re in the upper middle class. Which just seems wrong. We’re just missing some of the markers: big house, nice car, lots of vacations. What we have instead is: lots of degrees, multiple computers, lots of books, “enrichment” activities. When we first moved to the area after living in a place where the class structure is pretty flat, I had a hard time adjusting. Here, the upper middle class is seriously upper. There are mansions all around worth millions of dollars. A bmw is considered an economy car when people drive jaguars, hummers, and alfa romeos on a regular basis. When I went to the grocery store, I was regularly confronted by personal-trainer sculpted bodies weighed down with jewelry and fur coats. I had never seen such an ostentatious display of wealth in my life. And I chafed because I had thought that that was my class, but now I was looked down upon in my American car with my jeans, no makeup, no jewelry self. I did not like the feeling of being poor (even though I really wasn’t!!).

But then again, I chafe against being upper middle class. Growing up, I went to public school. The district was drawn in a way that I went to school with kids from the projects. That experience made me realize the luck of the draw, the way I had just been lucky to be born to the parents I was born to. Beginning in junior high, I volunteered through my church to work with the kids in the projects. Much of what I experienced led me to believe that there was no way out for them. We weren’t doing things that helped them; we were merely distracting them from their plight.

More recently, when I taught at a large urban state university, we did a unit that feature some of the work of Jonathon Kozol. Many of my students identified with the children he described. They walked by liquor stores, bums passed out on the street, and abandoned houses on their way to school. Everything around them told them they were going to fail. And their schools were no different. In talking about their school environment, one student said, “Maybe if we’d had grass on our playgrounds, we would have felt more optimisitc.” Another talked about students in high school selling drugs because it was the fast track to the American Dream. It allowed them to buy the cars, clothes and accoutrements they saw their richer counterparts buy. These students had made it to college, but they were well aware of the people they’d left behind. I really loved those students and was very sad to leave them. If I ever taught anywhere again, it would be there.

I think class is very damaging, both psychologically and economically. Though I’d like to believe that anyone can move up, I think we’re better off with a more pessimistic view. If the optimistic view means that just a few people make it, it seems the pessimistic view might mean that even more people make it. And I’m not pollyanna enough to believe that class structures will ever flatten out completely, but I do believe that the playing field can only be leveled if we force people to level it. Big business isn’t going to do it. It’s not in their best interest. The question is, how do we articulate our ideas about class and helping those less fortunate in a way that isn’t condescending (which is what I think Kerry did sometimes, even if he didn’t mean to). I think we have a long road ahead.

Update: The New York Times is similarly ambivalent: “Blind optimism has its pitfalls. If opportunity is taken for granted, as something that will be there no matter what, then the country is less likely to do the hard work to make it happen. But defiant optimism has its strengths. Without confidence in the possibility of moving up, there would almost certainly be fewer success stories.”

Major accomplishments today. (I even washed and vacuumed the car! Not even on the list!)

The day was absolutely gorgeous. I wore shorts for the first time–hooray! I had to resist buying lots more plants at the store since my mother’s coming next week. But they all looked so good. Of course, after reading an article on peak oil in Salon, I thought I should rush back and buy some veggie plants. I think I should grow chick peas. Are they legumes or what? How do they grow? I think I could live off of them–seriously. I’m totally plant illiterate. I do have books about them. Maybe that will help.

So the list continues, with indoor activities for tomorrow since it is likely going to rain:

Clean up front porch area–just needs a good vacuum
Laundry–done enough
Find places to take books/toys
Take books/toys to those places
Finish tweaking blog template (though I’m sure I’ll play around with it more)
Trip to grocery store
Bills

The porch really must be done. And the bills and grocery store. The rest can wait until later. There’s no way my house will be completely ready for my mother’s visit. She’s just going to have to see it in it’s real state.

Because I find it useful to put up a public to-do list, here it is:

For today:
Clean up front porch area
Get recycling containers
Laundry
Find places to take books/toys
Take books/toys to those places
Finish tweaking blog template
Trip to grocery store
Bills

For tomorrow (but maybe today):
Get container plants
Clean up deck area
Dig out other third of garden area

I’m actually feeling halfway human today after feeling pretty much dead yesterday. I had hoped to work on some of the above chores after the races, but felt so run down, I actually took a short nap and then laid around on the couch.

Just looked at the forecast–I may have to shift tomorrow’s chores to today since it’s supposed to rain tomorrow–dang. It might rain today. Guess I’d better get on that gardening thing.